Quick question for DB land. I am doing pretty well but am conflicted on how to handle myself later today. XF and S4 are attending a wedding today. Not a problem, but there will be drinking involved and I am almost positive that XF will over indulge. Do I offer to pick up S4 and make sure he is safe? Or let her HOPEFULLY make the right decisions to do that on her own?

The only reason I would reach out is him. I would not offer to drive her home, only make sure S4 is taken care of...

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home