I got home late last night after a few drinks with my closest friends. It's the first time I've been able to truly relax during a night out. I hardly thought about sitch or W at all. Contrast that with 2 weeks ago when I was a wreck during a meal out with the same friends.
W of course got back home at lot later at 4am. She is a bit of a binge drinker and really goes for it at the weekend.she was initially with work friends but finished the night with a GF who is also divorced. This is good and bad as the friend went through a horrible bitter divorce by the H. There was no OM/OW. W Has seen the effects on the kids and her friend but the friend has come through it after about 2 years.
This morning I went for m bike ride with the club while W was still in bed. On my return she had a massive hangover and had post alcohol blues but in a funny way. She followed me around house to tell me her night out story. I took a shower in ensuite of MBR and she came into room. We had a good chat, funny, with laughs and banter, the best since the BD. She also stayed while I towelled myself dry and throughout I used open body language and eye contact. She even went through her knicker draw to choose today's underwear in front of me.
So good interactions and a few flirty texts when she wet to the shops later.
This afternoon we have a Halloween tea party with about 6 other kids attending.
Then I take my kids to another party whilst W goes to a 50th that she said she doesn't want to go to...because. Of her hangover
Last edited by isittoolate; 10/31/1502:02 PM.
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