Had a good evening with sister and brother in law, tried a new restaurant.
Watched a world series game.
Have our last baseball tourney starting today.
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Last night, not being there with my boys, was rough. I hope it was the right thing to do. Actually have an upset stomach over it. Didn't sleep well. I guess I have literally worried myself sick over it.
But, if we are to be seperate... then this is what will be. Doesn't matter how horrible I feel about it.
Now today s6 and S8 have basketball games, then S8 has a baseball tourney. I will try and be nice and happy and love on my boys. I want to love on my W. But I can't.
Now, the last couple days, I have become more accepting that these are her feelings, and her decision. I do not agree with it at all, but she is entitled to whatever she feels. If I had truly made her that unhappy, then I don't blame her for wanting out. I hope she reconsider this, but that's on her. I feel like I am closer to dropping the rope.
I feel ready to truly move forward now. I will leave the door cracked, but I am tired. I have done several gal type things every week for a month or so. This has went on way longer than I ever would have dreamed, and I am becoming impatient. I will fight the urge to have any talks, but it will be tough.
Today will be a good day. Plenty of kids stuff to do. Wish me luck with pma!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
