And to confuse things more, there is detaching The goals won't have that feeling of disappointment if you are detached from the situation. You are working on your goals, meeting as many of the personal ones as you can, and looking for signs that some of the ownes related to your spouse are coming around.
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling
The goals won't have that feeling of disappointment if you are detached from the situation. You are working on your goals, meeting as many of the personal ones as you can, and looking for signs that some of the ownes related to your spouse are coming around.