Originally Posted By: Fogg
Careful with trying to place that blame in W also, there's no telling what caused it for sure.

You're right, Fogg, I will not do that, although the thought is in some corner of my mind.

Avanti has called me to reason some days ago.
Here are my goals.
1. I will be the best possible daddy. I will apply every time possible what I learned from reading "Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child", by John Gottman.
2. I will keep knowing myself with the support of my IC and our weekly meetings.
3. I will go to bed earlier, so that I can stay in bed at least 8 hours.
4. I will keep attending the Happiness Course initiated in September.
5. I will apply when possible active listening technique learned at the course .
6. I will keep doing physical exercises at home.
7. I will practice meditation more frequently, at least three times a week before going to sleep.
8. I will ask every day, several times, the question: "How do I feel about this?"


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15