My marriage has been on a downward path for years. I love my wife and up until about a month ago she would say it to me at times. About a month ago she just gave up. Not willing to seek help at all. I did a lot of things wrong when she first said she wanted me to move out! Probably 36 of Sandi's 37 things actually! Now I know! She said she doesn't e en want to be in the same room as me and that I have done more damage than I can even understand. Everything out of her mouth has been hateful. Rather than moving out I agreed to spend the month of November away with Family out of state. November 1st is this sunday. I went on a business trip this week and gave her her space. No texting or phone calls at all from Monday to Friday afternoon. I wanted to know what activities our kids were doing this weekend so I sent a quick text message about that. It did not go well! She has always been a very loving person to everyone! I have never seen her have such hate towards anyone as she has towards me right now! Not really sure what to do!!!!