Yes, completely normal to want this pain to be over with.

That is alot of activity to be doing together and it may be that you need to cut it out slowly. There is a point where it's full on cake eating and then maybe some tasting. We just want them to have a taste to want more.

I did the same with limiting W's consequences but it was just how things played out. The alternative for me at the time would have caused more issues so I picked my battles.

I wasn't implying to do more with her or go to the event tonight, you handled that great.

I'm just challenging some of the mindsets we all pick up that aren't always accurate to every sitch/period in a sitch anf I think could cause damage with the amount of nice guys (why think if they do everything right things will work out) on the forum. We hear and then repeat things that we see works at one point in our path and assume it's a standard to always follow, which is wrong.

Last edited by Fogg; 10/30/15 10:03 PM.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be