So, as ive posted a few times, I'm starting to brave back out into the dating world. And you know what? I have found that I'm way "better" at it than I expected. I'm a better listener, I'm not over-pursuing, I'm a better empathized, I'm more confident. And so on. I actually FEEL like by going through this that I AM the prize that the woman should fight for.
So true Azz. DB'ing has taught me many things but if there's a golden nugget of female communication it's from Wonka's thread.
"That must have been really difficult" or "That sounds like it's really frustrating" is like some kind of magic sentence. Low and behold it removes the need to solve any problems, or get frustrated yourself! (mind explodes with possibilities)
Sometimes I just find myself saying it at random times like when the girl at the grocery store asks how my day is...I'll just reply, "That must have been frustrating for you." She looks at me weird, but knows I'm a good listener.
Originally Posted By: Azzork
With that said, I haven't actually touched any of these women yet. I have absolutely NO CLUE how I will react once it reaches that point.
Yea. This one. I have a good notion I'm going to react prematurely. And then try again.
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