I'm glad the carpet was a huge success. One project done and I'm sure you'll come up w/more to do later on. You'll get those countertops later on and who knows, they may be a little bit cheaper by then and/or the "fad" will have changed up again.

I like the idea of you going out w/some of your adult friends Saturday night. You should have a lot of fun, i.e., a change in routine for you. Your h is very predictable in wanting to know if you are going out w/them. I'm sure your son won't mind if you pass on the trick or treating w/him, just as long as his father is w/him.

Go and have some fun tomorrow night!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.