OMG I feel like the MWD police are going to swoop in and shot me off the board today, because everything I want to say is just anti-DB'ing, even though it really really is DB'ing.
I am supposed to say "Dont date!" There, done. Dont mind the real thoughts running around in my head.
Actually, if you do start dating, it will make your life unbelievably more complicated. You may come to a point where you cant R your M because you just dont have it in you to hurt the feelings of your new fling. And that is one step away from being an a new M you dont really want.
That sounded so believable! Probably because it is true. But if I were in your shoes I would not have had the strength. I have no idea how the heck you made it out of there alive.
Wait, I do know how. Love.
OMG your W is so freakin lucky!
Thank you for this. I wish she felt like she is lucky. Your posts always brighten my day Mona, I'm grateful for you stopping by and sharing your thoughts.
And I get it. Don't date is good DB'ing but getting to where you're ready to date because the rope is 10 fee behind you probably is even better DB'ing.
Big hug to you,
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
