ugh.... every night its the same thing: he says he wants to work this out by communicating. But every single thing I saw, in answer to his questions is met with rage, accusations and blame. I try not to engage or to detatch but he says that's insulting and he rages all the more - to the point of waking me at night, etc. So it becomes my fault we can't work things out because I don't want to play the game. Meantime, he continues to dive deeper into depression, chasing after his former mistress (who doesn't want him) and a developing porn addiction, ontop of his alcohol consumption.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
