OMG I feel like the MWD police are going to swoop in and shot me off the board today, because everything I want to say is just anti-DB'ing, even though it really really is DB'ing.

I am supposed to say "Dont date!" There, done. Dont mind the real thoughts running around in my head.

Actually, if you do start dating, it will make your life unbelievably more complicated. You may come to a point where you cant R your M because you just dont have it in you to hurt the feelings of your new fling. And that is one step away from being an a new M you dont really want.

That sounded so believable! Probably because it is true. But if I were in your shoes I would not have had the strength. I have no idea how the heck you made it out of there alive.

Wait, I do know how. Love.

OMG your W is so freakin lucky!


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!