hey OTW,

I am stressing too much about reactions with my W. Most of my posts are about that. I constantly monitor and check and think about it. I just don't know how to shake it off. To do what's best for me and my kids. To do what I want with out wondering how it will interact with my W. We are S but living in the same house we are not really separate. I find I am obsessing about it. I need to think about other things.

I start soccer this Sunday and my W doesn't even know about it, I feel guilty a little for spending the money and not telling her about it. Also its a men and women team and I am feeling guilty about that. Anyway I will go and make the best of it.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016