Re: LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (3)

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Sandi

I think your W needs a really good therapist to help her deal with past issues. So far, she's still making you out to be the bad guy while she's excusing her own unfaithfulness. With her track record of unforgiveness, it must be terribly discouraging for you to keep marching forward.

I've really tried to catch myself when I begin to complain or be a "glass half empty" person. I tend to be a very positive and optimistic person. Plus the Lexapro helps.
She's been seeing an individual therapist periodically for several months. She volunteered information that the only thing they work on is why she can't forgive and start to move forward. I believe she needs intense therapy for abuse from her childhood and anger.

It has been hard to march on but I feel it is making me stronger everyday. I have learned so much through this turmoil about God, myself and relationships. This experience has been invaluable