Had to call W to discuss childcare arrangements for tonight.
She is out at a Halloween night out with girls from work. I arranged a last minute night out with an old pal whose partner is expecting first child soon..
So we need a childminder but it's complicated as s11 will be out with scouts at Halloween party and childminder cannot drive.
Anyway W was again curious as to where I was going out - I had just said I'm going out but she asked me why I was being vague so I told her my plans.
It's not a big deal just interesting - she is noticing my extra GAL activities (though before BD I had a good social life), it's become like a competition to out GAL each other though she will always win as she has a much wider circle of friends and can never say no to an invite.
All our phone discussions are warm, and she is chatty, and seemingly always accommodating to any request I have re: scheduling. It feels like she wants me to GAL so I won't be 'lonely'. She wants me to be active in all the boys activities as well.
I know I'm mind reading but I can't get past the feeling she is walking me down the road wanting an amicable separation and this is her preparation .
Last edited by isittoolate; 10/30/1501:59 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
