I ask about dinner, she start into me how I should have had something cooking already when the kids got home, she is in a bad mood.
What was your response? Do you always get home first, and do you normally prepare the family dinner?
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All I get was spew spew angry, this is how she has done it for 10 years then I go and take my money away from the family. I mention that I only did it because of the CC that was maxed out this summer. She still thinks that she can not pay a bill if there is something else she would rather spend the money on.
10 years? How can you change this? The rest of what she said and you said are pretty much repeated behavior, wouldn't you say? How can you turn this to a different direction when it starts happening again?
Have you separated your bank accounts from your W?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
