I cannot believe what I just read! Please heed mustard seed and V advice. Like Mona said, GAL, look great! Exercise and take care of yourself. If your H was coming to bail you out, it was to appease his guilt not to help you. Or to look good in the eyes of his kids. HOW is he going to face his kids!!! I think mustard seed is right, these are the actions of a scared animal.
I see shades on my H in how your H is behaving. They will go to any lengths to get what they want. NOTHING gets in their way. The feeling of loss of control or loss of respect is unbearable to them. They will do whatever they think they have to do, to whomever, to get it back. Be VERY careful.
Please promise you will start doing some small GALing, it really helps. You have a lot of wonderful people here, who have been in similar stitches, giving you great advice. Take care of yourself first.
