If this is the one I think it is,Michele is counseling them (although the W refused to go). She is asking the H what he would see his W doing if she believed the M was salvageable. It wasn't him setting the goals, but like many H's have asked.......how can I tell if my W is interested again?

Then the H needs to think what action he can do to show his W the M is salvageable, then break it down in smaller steps. In other words, it goes back to working on himself and keeping the big picture in focus.

I can see in some places in the book how a reader might interpret some things differently.


Last edited by sandi2; 10/30/15 11:47 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!