Thanks Azzork and Sotto. I think I should have been more clear in my post above.
I have personal goals I think listed in the old thread and I have been doing well on those. Those are actual goals that are within my control (need some new ones though). I have not even thought about any relationship related goals until now.
The above posts are strictly talking about the concepts in Divorce Remedy. I was trying to apply the concepts described in step 2 to my situation with an example. These are not my only goals... heck I do not even know if these will be goals or not. I am trying to figure it out. To me most of the 'goals' in the above post are not even really goals. I am trying to understand the concepts outlined in the book so I can apply them.
