less confused newbie. (6)

[dday]

Thanks fogg. It's good to hear others are going through the same things, and have conquered them.

My reason for not Going tonight is: we are seperated. I can't act the happy family if that is where we are. It leads me on, and the boys. Missing halloween is going to be a lot easier than missing a bday, so if it has to be this way, I would rather ease into it.

Should I explain it to W, or just say that I am going out with sister, since it is W weekend with boys. I don't want to appear to put someone over my kids, is why I ask