I can see this scenario playing out over and over the course of our marriage, for instance I wanted to go on solo vacations as a couple of as a family and every time we ended up going with his parents and siblings. We haven’t had a vacation, just the two of us, since 2007! We have NEVER been on vacation as a family! How ridiculously sad is that? I can see now that I just gave up the fight because I knew I would be defeated. This is what I am changing about myself. I do not have to have the voice he gave to me. I have my own.
BRAVO!! I have never did the vaca thing with the family either. The kids go every year, but I can never afford to go myself. I too have plans to take the kids to Jamaica in March! I am so excited.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
