Ok....I need to spell out my goals!!!

1. Get settled into my new place, unpack. Buy new bed and mattress, dresser, dining room table and chairs, small patio set, coffee table, couch, dishes, a new wok and make it truly mine.
2. Repair my car, sell it and buy a newer one with less kilometres and warranty.
3. Sign up at our local college for adult learning classes.
4. Sign up for online courses in the field I want to study (animal care)
5. Apply for the Animal Care attendant college program by Feb, 1st ( again I can do most of these courses online)
6. Pay off all my outstanding debts (every single one of them), plus pay car and house content insurance for the whole year.
7. Get membership for the yoga studio
8. Consistently go swimming and for walks with the doggie.
9. Find other interests to explore (painting or re-learning clarinet)
I was a prolific player in my youth and played in marching, concert and jazz bands)

Phew....I think that's enough for right now. I think once this gets rolling I won't have time to think about what my H is up to. Lol

On a really lighter note. A couple of months ago I was searching for art lessons in my area and came across a local artist that teaches adult art lessons. We corresponded via email for a while and I told her I would be in touch after I sold my house. I got an email from her last night. She was looking for models for a couple of her art classes and also for a photoshoot in a couple of weeks. Minimal compensation, but I get copies of the photos and the art work. Now the kicker, for the art classes I will be posing nude. A bit out of my comfort zone since I have always struggled with body image and weight issues. F*** it! I am who I am! In all my glory, stretch marks, rolls, tattooed and all. I am real!!

Last edited by Di-mond; 10/29/15 10:31 PM.

Di-mond in the rough
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My children S-25 D-23
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H left April Fools Day 2015

One day at a time!