I will answer, but you may not be happy you asked, lol.

I DB'ed for almost 3 years before he came back.

There was all but zero contact. He moved in with OW that I had no idea about in a different state hours away. He had no desire to stay in contact with the kids and definitely not me.

My life was magical when the 3 years was over. Perfect H, perfect family, perfect job. It was the honeymoon phase all over again, but better. Neither of us could believe how lucky we were. That was 8 forgotten years ago.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!