- still go out 1-2x week. but be sure to spend time with family when the boys are at our house YES - reply to her texting and reaching out but don't over do it. YES - Her LL is acts of service. So should I start doing some of these things? Not everything I use to do but some of them? NO - Do I ask if she would like to go on a date with me? HELL NO -When I do go out give her my itinerary and when I'll be home? HELL TO THE NO