Originally Posted By: sandi2
the LBH'S on the board seem to be the nice-guy type of men. Just as wayward women seem to read from the same script, so do the nice-guy LBH'S. I really have wondered if the men were not the nice-guy types, if the W's would ever go as deep into her waywardness.


I was thinking this exact thing today Sandi.

I am not sure if it because we have tended to kiss their a$$ and they get accustomed to treating us like a servant, or if it is the silent contract / secretly trying to control wife with our passive aggressiveness...eventually that control is too much for them.

Hmm, I am sure there are tons of explanations.


M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together