Agreed. The poker really set her off. It's too bad because I enjoy it and have made a little money at it but I would completely give it up because it makes her anxious. We did discuss a healthy balance.

So full DBing or light and light DBing would be.....
- still go out 1-2x week. but be sure to spend time with family when the boys are at our house
- reply to her texting and reaching out but don't over do it.
- Her LL is acts of service. So should I start doing some of these things? Not everything I use to do but some of them?
- Do I ask if she would like to go on a date with me?
-When I do go out give her my itinerary and when I'll be home?


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place