Goals:


With W:
1. I will not follow W around house like a puppy dog
2. I will not initiate conversation with W but will engage when she does
3. I will not txt, or phone her unless she does first
4. I will change the evening dynamic to be less available for her
5. I will continue to perform some house duties as before BD but not extra

Kids:
6. I will show love to our boys each and every day through word and deed
7. I will bring fun and laughter into the house and lighten the mood
8. I will do more to organise childcare
9. I will ring the kids before bed every night I am working away
10. I will kiss the kids goodnight and hug them and say ILY when I am at home

GAL:
11. I will reignite my passion for running and enter a few races
12. I will start salsa dancing lessons – one or two per week
13. I will contact old friends and meet up with them – one every two weeks.

Personal
14. I will take care of myself with regard to sleep and reduce my sleeping pills
15. I will maintain my present weight and not lose anymore.
16. I will shave each and every day
17. I will get a new Hairstyle? smile
18. I might get some Botox? (If W can have it so can I!)

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/29/15 06:04 PM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16