Back on these forums again 2

[Mona52]

Posting here so I can give my mother a break from my spewing...
H just texted me again. I stopped answering him yesterday and I am not going to reply today either. And I fully plan on being gone when he picks D up.

He wants to know if I still have the inflatable bed.

(breath Mona)
The city house we currently rent is more narrow than my car is long, so to get an actual bed up to the third floor, we had to pull it through a window.

When we first moved in, I had a firetruck bed for my little boy, and I was able to bring that up in pieces and put it together.

As all kids do, during the years they wanted to switch rooms. He was too big for a firetruck bed, but H would not pull a bed up into the room. He PROMISED he would, but never did.

(I should have, could have, would have just done it myself)

So finally after seeing S curl into a tiny bed one night, I moved the kids around. I bought an inflatable bed for D and gave her his room and I threw out the firetruck bed. She slept on that for over a year until finally I got so mad at him that I could not be near him, or sleep in the same bed, and she FINALLY got a bed.

For the life of him he could not understand why she just could not stay on the blow up mattress. He felt I was unreasonable for wanting her to have a bed.

So I would have been slightly annoyed when he asked for that mattress. But, instead I am ticked off that he has the nerve. because, he was fully expecting to just take the bed that is in the spare room at my moms house to his new apartment.

I told my mom yesterday not to give him a bed, he has to get his own things. But she disagreed, so I asked her to keep the bed there so I could have it. Well, if I need it, then she could not give it to him. So I guess today he found out he cant just take my mother's bed.

Instead of getting a bed, he sends me a text to annoy the cr@p out of me.
I SHOULD give him the bed. What woman will sleep in a twin blow up bed, lol?
No, he is not getting my bed and he is not getting a response from me.

Tomorrow night is trick or treat. IF he shows up to see his S on his last Trick or Treat before he is too big to do it anymore, I guess then H can get a response from me.

I know, instead of responding tomorrow, I will reply that i need to sleep on it