Flight, the biggest consequence of all would be for her to lose your friendship.
Really, security and home and all that will be established in Sep agreement.
Your companionship, comfort and friendship is something that cannot just be replaced like that. Deep down I believe these women know that. I could be wrong, I know it happens from time to time.
If they truly believe that you will not be their friend till the wnd, it may actually spark the change. This cannot be a tactic or a game. If you want RI enforce your boundary, you must protect yourself. Besides friends don't treat each other like she has treated you...you get what I mean.
Please go back and reread Sandi's WW thread , more than once if necessary. Print it out and take notes about how it affects you and your spouse.
