Hi Mona, you sound like a lovely woman indeed - your posts are vibrant & full of warmth and humour..

I'm pleased to hear about the plans you have and your impending move. You are so right that focusing on other things and getting excited about your own life truly makes a big difference.

Can I make a couple of comments WRT your H. Firstly, that evening you describe a few posts ago - where you cooked the cheeseburger pie and dressed up?? Actually, I would love to see you cooking and wearing whatever you feel like and not worrying about whether H may notice. Also, I think you sending a text to your H, thanking him for taking your D out isn't needed. That's just you wanting to feel a link with him and your D is old enough to thank him herself.

It is still early days, but I think forging ahead with your own things and letting the contact with H go is the way forwards. I do think you are doing well and are on the right track with much of what you are doing.....and I get how difficult it is to let go of the bond with your H. Hang on in there my friend xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus