Well those terms and conditions are different to the ones posted in the sticky now. Virginia added a clarification:

"It was never our intention to provide a means of privately connecting with others via the internet. There are many other sites where that is encouraged. This is not one of them."

One might argue the intent or legal definition of "privately". Are there DB support groups? That might be a great resource.

H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling