I don't think that means you can't meet at all, it just means you can't post private information for obvious privacy reasons. I imagine too, they don't want people soliciting others here, for example to find people and take them off the boards for private, for profit coaching. Couldn't a person say "we are having a meetup at McDonald's cafe on Tuesday at 6pm?" That is not private, it is a public meeting and would seem to be in the spirit of these boards. A shame they block private messages. One of the only forums I've seen that does this. But I can see the rationale for doing so.
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling