Guys, thanks for the advice. I know that you've all got my best interests at heart and I appreciate it!

Things have moved on.

W invited him round after I had suggested it. The excuse was to fix an awkward leaky tap and have a cup of tea.

He arrived when I was out on my running club GAL but I got to meet him for 10 mins.

Describing him as a village idiot was cruel on my part, but he is a sandwich short of a picnic. More like a gentle giant. He does have several health problems not least bipolar and told me he had a health check today and had been referred to 'fat club' and had to have a colon exam by camera.

There is undoubtedly a level of inappropriateness to this relationship but it's not a typical EA.

However I can only treat it like an EA and W as a WW..
W is mentally with an EA and is probably dreaming of a PA but not with this guy.

It would be nice to get Sandis and or Mr Bonds perspective on this

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/28/15 09:36 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16