Don't!

You are standing up for yourself. Your kids are important to you.

In the end she will respect your strength but for now focus on meeting your own needs. Spending time with your kids is a great choice.

Me:41 W:43
D:19 S:14
M:20 T:22
BD1: Mar 6, 2015 - wife leaves with son
BD2: Mar 12, 2015 - restraining orders for 1 year