So conflicted. Seperated from my wife.

[TxHubby]

He's her boss? That's easy, expose the affair. That will nip that in the bud. Expose far and wide.

[Amel502]

I'm off to pick up the book. I will be back with questions and updates. Thank you guys for your input. The support is so empowering right now.

[Amel502]

He's her boss? That's easy, expose the affair. That will nip that in the bud. Expose far and wide.

I did expose it when the first started to her Army commander. Without hard proof they didn't do anything. I don't see how exposing her would do anything positive

[Azzork]

He's her boss? That's easy, expose the affair. That will nip that in the bud. Expose far and wide.

Thats one thing you can do. But the OM is not really the problem. If it werent him, it could just as well by someone else. Getting rid of this OM isnt the problem. Your W's waywardness is the problem.

If she comes back because you got rid of OM, it will more than likely just happen again in the future.

[MrBond]

Since you already exposed, there's no point in continuing exposure.

When you're together, what "hot buttons" can you push that gets your W to lower her guard? You have the gift of knowledge of how your W is. Use it to your advantage.

Just don't go overboard.

[Amel502]

Since you already exposed, there's no point in continuing exposure.

When you're together, what "hot buttons" can you push that gets your W to lower her guard? You have the gift of knowledge of how your W is. Use it to your advantage.

Just don't go overboard.

She sees what a great father I am and how great our son is developing. Makes her proud too. Our son is def our main bond. I have a good sense of humor and can make her smile anytime.

I think she regrets where we are but she blames it on me including the A. She still can't talk about how we broke up without crying

[Amel502]

Anyone have any success stories on getting back with a wife that is with someone else now?

[Cristy]

Hello Amel502,

First, let me thank you for your service!

I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

It is easy to be confused when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head regarding how to interact with your wife, especially when you are all together.

It would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me to discuss our program at 303-444-7004.


Cristy
Resource Coordinator
The Divorce Busting Center
303-444-7004

[ILYNOT]

Anyone have any success stories on getting back with a wife that is with someone else now?

That happens quite often, most affairs don't last more than 6months.

The main reason they don't last is because of how they began, through lies and deceit. Also, eventually the secrecy and excitement wears off.

10% of affairs move on to have an actual relationship
of those 10% only half of those are successful.

So don't worry about the OM, worry about YOURSELF! For when and if she comes back, she will never want to leave you again.

[ILYNOT]

I truly feel for what you are going through.

My W had been having an affair with a service man for over a year. So I know your pain. Keep your head up, pray often.

Become the best you ever!