I thought sharing boundaries was related to the A and thought LBH should not bring up R unless WW wants to discuss.. I have so much to work on to understand relationships in general.
Exactly how would you word that boundary? "I will not share a bedroom with a spouse who is cheating on me"? Ok, then what would you do if she continues to put her things back in the MRB? Right now, she sees it as a power struggle.
What can I do? How do I communicate this boundary? Moving her things out of MBR made her upset but it offered me the space away from her (just for those few weeks) that I found beneficial for my wellbeing (she is not with me in MR).
Could I say, "I am respecting your privacy by not entering the bedroom where you sleep please remove your things from MBR." What can I do if she does not honor this boundary?
