I can feel myself slowly detaching and letting her go. I need help with communication.
Typical workday morning, W comes into MBR bath to get ready for work and when I step out of MBR she closes the door. I am realizing she gets 2 bedrooms? No! I do not enter the spare bedroom where she sleeps and chooses to communicate with OM; I am respecting her privacy (history, when the bomb dropped on me I did everything LBH should not do like snoop, confronted OM, web blogged, journaled events where audience was the kids.. and she found it all and holds it against me). I told her she needs to move her things out of the MBR because she turned away from our R and chooses to communicate with OM.
A few weeks back, I made a suggestion that she should move her stuff out. She came home from work the next day and started to move her things out. Then the days to follow, she made comments like when you go on your business trip I am going to move your stuff out and my stuff back in to the MBR. I get back from business trip last week and she moved her stuff back in to the MBR.
Basically nothing has changed from years prior. She sleeps in the other bedroom but has all her things in the MBR. I would like her to move her stuff back out of MBR (I know she is pissed at this.. again, she made comments that her parents sold us the house.. I haven’t said but perhaps should say that we added the MBR with the premises that it was for us; you turned away).
