[quote=Amel502] Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Dont follow her around grasping at every opportunity to see her. Sometimes, make plans to go out with a friend when you know she will be at your place.
The key to both of these questions is that you dont want to focus your life around her. Let her be a part of the fringes of your life. Live your own life with or without her.
Make sense?
It does make sense. My initial confusion was about the tough love and detaching.
