OK, first things first. If you are here to stop your D from becoming final this week, that will take an actual hand of God miracle to keep that from happening.
There is not a thing that we can say, or advice to give that will make your W "snap out of it" and change her mind and decide to cancel the final settlement meeting tomorrow.
However, if you want to work on a post divorce reconciliation:
You number one mission is to read DB cover to cover.
Number two mission, be open and honest with questions posed to you here. Sure feel free to change things to protect privacy (say you went to a restaurant, instead of the specific name of the place), say you were married in June if it was really December.
Were here to help, but you need to put in some work too.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
