If my R was good I wouldn't be worried about her R with this guy.but equally
She wouldn't be texting, phoning him as often as she would be ringing me instead etc.

In fact tonight she rang him from the car on her way home. In the past she would ring me

But as our R is screwed, she is reaching out to him more ....so I get worried about etc etc..

Do I need to set a boundary? If so what? Boundaries have to be enforceable don't they?

Another example of her heart of gold is another male friend who lives in Dubai. She knew his mother for a long time and the two sons one married and one in Dubai. The mother died from cancer but she continued to contact this guy in Dubai even though he is a dork out of respect for the mother. He is having a 50th this weekend and she is going to the party.

Last edited by isittoolate; 10/28/15 07:04 PM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
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