Ok I did not use the word permission but I said she could still contact him or vice versa. She was openly calling him this evening as I had said it was ok and not to hide it away. She was doing as I suggested. She also said she had told him that their friendship was ok with me. I know ...it sound terrible when on paper.
Remember he has a mental disability, has a bowel condition and is overweight and quite err 'ugly' . Some people make him out to be the village idiot but she has a heart of gold and reaches out to people like that.
She says he is just a friend. I know! I know! It's dangerous and develops etc etc .
I think it is inappropriate and if I'd known say 3 months ago I would have said so.
But now after the BD I don't have much leverage. She isn't flirty with other men in my company but I think she has always been flirty when I am not around.
What do I do. I want to say it's not acceptable and its inappropriate. But I have no leverage. I can only ignore it and not let it eat me up.
He does odd building jobs and labouring and I thought of inviting him to do a job at the house or I can introduce myself next time I see him at school.
Last edited by isittoolate; 10/28/1506:42 PM.
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