"Theres lots of different scenarios, and the way that we can give advice will change some based on what the background is."
Exactly.
"Ok I can answer that. Not from cover to cover."
That's why you keep doing the wrong things or don't know what to do.
"So I have Divorce Busting book. I have been trying to gather as much knowledge thru here."
What we are giving you are suggestions just based on our own experiences. The book, however, is based on study and research as to what works. Reading the book fully and understanding the concepts are key.
"So you think there could be still hope even though the divorce will be finalized in 2 weeks?"
Yes. But I also don't appreciate your "either help me or get the h@ll out attitude" when we ask for specifics.
Here's the thing... you practically beg for help, then when we ask for specifics to be able to help, you complain about it. You were getting help from two vets who have been able to save their M's, sandi and myself, and we both asked the same questions from you. Instead, you blew us off.
You say that you don't want to get into details to preserve your W's honor/privacy. Well, she's not going to be your W in about a week. Where has "protecting" her honor gotten you? A quick trip to divorce court.
But that's up to you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.