Originally Posted By: Amel502
I think detachment is focusing on myself and not doing things for her. But on the weekends around our son we been taking turns buying food, going out to eat watching movies together. She talks to me about work and it seems we enjoy each other. I just don't know how to act since its been confirmed she has been cheating. Am I a doormat if I don't react and keep being nice?


So in your mind, how does the stuff in blue contradict the stuff in bold?