^^^^^^Um yeah. Permission? You gave her permission? There might be nothing you can do, but giving her permission? Honestly dude. Now, maybe there's something, maybe there's not, but permission. I can see ignoring it maybe, trying to get as much intel as possible (you go to martial arts practice yet?), but permission? The flirty by nature thing is also totally unacceptable, and you need to call her on it if she mentions it again. It is not acceptable to be flirty when you're married. My w did it all the time. Helps throw H of the scent too casting such a wide net.
