So if you can't just accept the fact that my problem was that I was lying to my wife. That's all anyone needs to know. I am protecting my wife by not going into detail.
I understand your point on some level, Bobby.
I do think that its very different, for example, if you broke her trust by having an affair vs. gambling away money vs. loaning money out to friends vs. lying about how much you made or something. Theres lots of different scenarios, and the way that we can give advice will change some based on what the background is.
