in house seperation (3)

[vise82]

Thank you for the input everyone.

Yes I am at two extremes. W has noticed the two sides of extremes and she is telling people that I am loosing my mind. I talked about that with her this morning saying that I am not losing my mind and to stop saying that about me.

I went from I don't know what to do with out her to ignoring her completely like she didn't exist. This is fed off what she says, doesn't want me to be her H.

Someone said that she should be treated like a neighbor. I get that, Say hello, say good bye, a little something about the weather, then on my way.

I have been saying nothing, walking by and ignoring, on my way away from her.

She texted me again today, something about my kids event was cancelled, again not an emergency. So I texted back following the advice on here:

I got your texts. I am busy at work. I can answer your texts when I am at home and I have more time to focus and to give them the consideration they need.