I think you said my point better. We want to save our marriages so right now we are doing more of the 'work' until the fog clears and our spouses come to their senses
I completely agree with you and I feel I have been doing 90% of the work for over a year and 100% of the work since she started her A. I am willing to continue fighting alone for this M. I guess what I'm saying is if she starts talking about R I'm going to need to see some work/progress/commitment on her part. I'm going to need her to come along side me and do some work too. Does this make sense?
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place