Well, I'm trying not to look at it as a confrontation. I just need real resolution. I got very promising signs from her last week, and I think I need to strike while the iron is hot.
We have begun to tell each other what we want, and one of the things she said she wanted was space/time and so I wait for her to make contact when she feels comfortable. Which she has done. So probably the next time she calls me I will feel her and out go from there.
She often asks...why did she has to leave for me to change. I'm now thinking that I need to tell her I needed that shock to my heart. My shock to her heart is telling her I can't be "just friends" going forward, and she needs to decide if all the pain/hurt/resentment is worth that price.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
