I felt i was being very cold..... then something clicked one day and things felt very different. I could be myself around her again. know why? Because i realized what i did wasnt going to change her. i stopped worrying about that and worried about what i was doing and was it right or wrong that is it. If she didnt like it or if she did, didnt matter. I know i was doing the correct thing at any instance.
Felt the same last night and today. Last night by changing the evening dynamic and not sitting with her to watch TV. And then today by telling her I'm going out from 7-8:30.
And telling her I'm going out on MOn and Tues evening for the next few weeks
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
