listen, listen, listen......validate, validate, validate......show respect and be respected......clear, cool, calm

The anger and hurt are definitely there and there will be an appropriate time to express it. I know now is not that time. she would not accept it and it would push her away. She is still hurting and has yet to forgive or move past when I broke her trust over a year ago. It's been a long road and we're not even close to the end of it yet. Lots of work to do yet.

Thanks for all the support and reminders.

Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place